Sunday, March 20, 2011

Great Books

Great Books for Kids – Reading is Fundamental

  • Great books for kids involve lots of repetition!!!
  • Books can inspire your children, expand their imaginations, and help them become better learners
  • Create a “literacy rich home” – This describes a home environment that encourages children to become lifelong readers.  Families can support language learning by creating an atmosphere in which reading, writing, and talking are a natural part of daily life.
  • Here’s a list to get your child’s library started:


Are You My Mother?
Baby Faces
Brown Bear, Brown Bear
Chicken Soup with Rice
Do You Want To Be My Friend?
Duck by the Sea
Fire! Fire! Said Mrs. McGuire
Good Night, Mr. Bettle
Goodnight Moon
Have You Seen My Cat?
Henny Penny
I Know an Old Lady Who Swallowed a Fly
I See a Cow
If You Give A Mouse a Muffin
If You Give A Mouse a Cookie
If You Give A Pig a Pancake
Is Your Mama A Llama?
It Looked Like Spilt Milk
Jesse Bear, What Will You Wear?
Jump Frog, Jump
Lello the Lion
Leo the Late Bloomer
Love You Forever
Mr. Brown Can Moo, Can You?

My First Baby Signs
Owl Moon
Panda Bear, Panda Bear
Pat the Bunny
Polar Bear, Polar Bear
Rooster’s Off to See the World
Shapes and Colors
Sheep in a Jeep
She’ll Be Comin’ Round the Mountain
Silly Sally
Stop, Thief!
The Braggin’ Dragon
The Gingerbread Man
The Jacket I Wear In the Snow
The Snowy Day
The Three Little Pigs
The Very Busy Spider
The Very Hungry Caterpillar
The Wheels on the Bus
Today Is Monday
We’re Going on a Bear Hunt
Zaza the Zebra

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Book Review: Feeling Happy

I keep forgetting to share this book: Feeling Happy by PBS Kids




I love this book for speech therapy! I especially love it for ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) kids because it goes through 10 (maybe 8.. I can't remember) different emotions. Each page allows the child to turn a wheel to match the emotion face to the animal in the story. Each page has short rhyming sentences to let you know the situation and the emotion that resulted. The last page has an overview and encourages the child to choose how they feel at the moment. There's also a section in the back to parents about encouraging and teaching emotion words to their kids in everyday life.

I sent this book home for a couple of weeks with a sweet, higher functioning boy with ASD who has had a LOT of difficulty regulating and expressing emotions appropriately. With a LOT of reinforcement and encouragement from his wonderful mother, he has started identifying emotions in the characters on tv and movies! I can't wait for him to tell me he's angry or upset instead of screaming and losing control.... now just to master "why" questions so that he can tell us what has caused this unwanted disruption in his emotional control!

Developing Language Skills

Developing Language Skills in Young Children:

Strategies for Families and Childcare Providers

1. Talk about what is happening during routines and activities at home, daycare, school, and other community settings (such as the playground, park, library, etc). Your child needs to hear the words for what he or she is experiencing throughout the day.

2. Simplify your language as you talk (use more single words and phrases instead of long sentences).

3. Pair some of your important words with simple signs such as more, play, book, come here, open, go, finished, etc... This is called sign language stimulation.

4. If you are using picture communication systems, point to the pictures that represent important words while you are talking. This is called Aided Language Stimulation (Goosen’s, Cram, & Elder) Because you “aide” or pair your spoken language with pictures so your child can better understand what you say and can more easily learn to express himself or herself. For example, during play with bubbles, you would point to the pictures on the “Bubble Board” of blow, pop, big, little, more, uh-oh, etc as you say those words alone and in phrases. Picture (and object) communication systems allow your child to “see” and “feel” language in addition to hearing it. Language learning becomes more experimental and meaningful.

5. Say key words and phrases (and signs/pictures) over and over again. This natural repetition helps your child learn important language concepts. When making juice you could say “Pour… pour… pour it in …stir …stir …stir the juice” (Also pair with the sign and/or picture).

6. Pause often while you are talking to allow your child time to process what you are saying and to provide opportunities for spontaneous communication.

7. Although you may know just what your child wants, wait somewhat to encourage him or her to communicate needs and wants through gestures, words, signs, and/or pictures. Don’t wait too long if your child frustrates easily, but do get in the habit of not anticipating every need.

8. Use modeling & expansion techniques.
  • If your child communicates nonverbally through gestures or facial expressions, model the word, sign, and/or picture that matches the nonverbal communication. If your child hands you a cup, you could say, “juice… you want juice”. If he or she looks at a favorite toy on the shelf, you could say “truck… I’ll get your truck”. Remember to pair signs and/or pictures too if you are using these techniques with your child.
  • If your child communicates through a word/sign/picture, model a spoken 2-3 word phrase with signs and pictures (so your child experiences a higher level of language). If your child communicates, “book”, you should say and show “read book?” or “more book”… “Ok, let’s read more book.”
9. Provide motivating, interactive communicative situations. Make communication interactive and fun rather than stilted and boring. Limit lots of question asking and be more descriptive instead.

10. Use a variety of “sabotage” techniques to encourage spontaneous communication from your child, such as the following:
  • Place objects out of reach (favorite toy on a shelf, glass of milk across the table)
  • Make items difficult to get (glue or bubbles cap tightly closed, unopened pack of crackers)
  • Take advantage of other children’s or adult’s “turns” as opportunities for modeling and competition
  • “Forget” something (a shoe during dressing, milk for cereal, paint during art, a turn during game, turning TV on or off)
  • Limit amount of items so that child has to ask for more (Pour 1/3 cup juice instead of full cup; hand out an almost empty glue container)
  • Limit number of items to a small group of children to share (one pair of scissors, glue container, paint brush)
  • Be “silly” (begin story time with the book upside down)
11. Provide frequent opportunities for choice making throughout each day. Examples of choices:
  • Breakfast foods
  • Clothes to wear
  • Toys to play with
  • Persons to play with
  • Recreational/leisure activities
  • Songs to sing
  • What to draw
  • Color of paint or paper
  • Books to read
  • Persons to read with
  • Snacks to eat
  • Playground equipment to play on 
  • Which child to have the next turn
  • What to cook
  • Whether to pour or stir
  • To go to Pizza Hut or McDonald’s
  • Help wrap a present or make a birthday card
  • Feed the dog or the fish
  • Play a trick on dad, sister, etc
  • Call grandma or a friend
12. Use a variety of prompts and cues when encouraging communication from your child
  • Situational cues
  • Facial cues
  • Verbal cues
  • Gestural cues
  • Hand-over-hand assistance
13. Create a language-rich environment
  • Have communication accessible to your child
  • Signs know and modeled by home and school
  • Picture systems set up in multiple home and school environments
References:
Burke, C (1997). Simple Technology Encourages Independence in Play and Communication for Infants and Toddlers with Disabilities. Association/or Childhood Education International’s Division for Infancy Newsletter, Spring, COL9, No.3, pp1-3.
Goossens & Crain (1986B). Augmentative Communication Intervention Resource. Chicago, IL: Don Johnson Developmental Equipment.
Goossens, Crain, & Elder (1992). Engineering the Preschool Environment for Interactive, Symbolic Communication, Southeast Augmentative Communication Conference Publications, Birmingham, Alabama.
Grimm, D. (1988). Simplify Your Language to Help Your Child Understand. Parent Articles 1. Psychological Corporation’s Communication Skill Builder’s Division. Tucson, Arizona, pp 93-94.
Staab, C. (1983). Language Functions Elicited by Meaningful Activities: A New Dimension To Language Programs, American Speech Language Hearing Association’s Journal of Language, Speech, & Hearing in the Schools, July, Vol.14 , pp 164-170.
Ostrosky, M., and Kaiser, A. (1991). Preschool Classroom Environments That Promote Communication, Teaching Exceptional Children. Summer Issue, pp 6-10

Iphone Apps

My favorite Speech Apps for the iPhone

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

All about speech therapy

What do speech therapists do?
Speech Therapists are trained to work with communication disorders and swallowing in adults and children. Communication disorders can be:
  • Articulation (speech sounds - should be perfect by age 7)
  • Language (understanding and expressing verbal and written language)
  • Voice (hoarseness caused by vocal cord nodules/polyps/abuse/paralysis)
  • Fluency (stuttering)
  • Memory (rehab for brain injuries, dementia...)
  • Social (using language appropriately - big problem in autism)
Should my child be in speech therapy?
First of all... if you are asking then the answer is probably yes :)

What diagnoses indicate a need for speech therapy?
Lots :)
Autism, Developmental Delay, Speech Delay, Language Delay, Dysphagia (difficulty swallowing), Apraxia, Traumatic Brain Injury, Dementia, Stroke, Aphasia, Cleft Palate, Stuttering, Vocal Dysfunction, Parkinson's, Multiple Sclerosis, and more :)



If your child has not reached these milestones then contact your pediatrician to set up speech therapy. Do not let your pediatrician tell you that they are too young or that they'll grow out of it. You know your child better than anyone else and if you feel there is a delay then an evaluation can't hurt.

If your child is under 3 years old, contact your county's Early Intervention services first.

Sometimes insurances won't pay for outpatient speech therapy... contact your school district and they should have a free service. If your insurance will pay for it, do it.

Also... once in speech therapy:
  • Come to your appointments - common sense - I know but you would not believe :)
  • Do the homework... a little every day
  • Ask for more homework and do it
  • Make it fun and exciting for your child
  • Remember that it doesn't happen overnight
  • Don't be afraid to ask questions about your child's progress or treatment techniques
  • Most kids do 100% better without their parent present during therapy
I also like these sites for more information and tools:

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

To Moms

This was posted on a blog called... "Welcome to the Club" and I thought I would share it with you...

My dear friend,
I am so sorry for your pain.
Don’t worry; no one else sees it, I promise. To the rest of the world, you’re fine. But when you’ve been there, you can’t miss it.
I see it in your eyes. That awful, combustible mixture of heart-wrenching pain and abject fear. God, I remember the fear.
I see it in the weight of that invisible cloak that you wear. I remember the coarseness of its fabric on my skin. Like raw wool in the middle of the desert. You see, it was mine for a time.
I never would have wanted to pass it on to you, my love. I remember so well suffocating under the weight of it, struggling for breath, fighting to throw it off while wrapping myself in its awful warmth, clutching its worn edges for dear life.
I know that it feels like it’s permanent, fixed. But one day down the line you will wake up and find that you’ve left it next to the bed. Eventually, you’ll hang it in the closet. You’ll visit it now and then. You’ll try it on for size. You’ll run your fingers over the fabric and remember when you lived in it, when it was constant, when you couldn’t take it off and leave it behind. But soon days will go by before you wear it again, then weeks, then months.
I know you are staring down what looks to be an impossibly steep learning curve. I know it looks like an immovable mountain. It is not. I know you don’t believe me, but step by step you will climb until suddenly, without warning, you will look down. You will see how far you’ve come. You’ll breathe. I promise. You might even be able to take in the view.
You will doubt yourself. You won’t trust your instincts right away. You will be afraid that you don’t have the capacity to be what your baby will need you to be. Worse, you’ll think  that you don’t even know what she needs you to be. You do. I promise. You will.
When you became a mother, you held that tiny baby girl in your arms and in an instant, she filled your heart. You were overwhelmed with love. The kind of love you never expected. The kind that knocks the wind out of you. The kind of all encompassing love that you think couldn’t possibly leave room for any other. But it did.
When your son was born, you looked into those big blue eyes and he crawled right into your heart. He made room for himself, didn’t he? He carved out a space all his own. Suddenly your heart was just bigger. And then again when your youngest was born. She made herself right at home there too.
That’s how it happens. When you need capacity you find it. Your heart expands. It just does. It’s elastic. I promise.
You are so much stronger than you think you are. Trust me. I know you. Hell, I am you.
You will find people in your life who get it and some that don’t. You’ll find some that want to get it and some that never will. You’ll find a closeness with people you never thought you had anything in common with. You’ll find comfort and relief with friends who speak your new language. You’ll find your village.
You’ll change. One day you’ll notice a shift. You’ll realize that certain words have dropped out of your lexicon. The ones you hadn’t ever thought could be hurtful. Dude, that’s retarded. Never again. You won’t laugh at vulnerability. You’ll see the world through a lens of sensitivity. The people around you will notice. You’ll change them too.
You will learn to ask for help. You’ll have to. It won’t be easy. You’ll forget sometimes. Life will remind you.
You will read more than you can process. You’ll buy books that you can’t handle reading. You’ll feel guilty that they’re sitting by the side of the bed unopened. Take small bites. The information isn’t going anywhere. Let your heart heal. It will. Breathe. You can.
You will blame yourself. You’ll think you missed signs you should have seen. You’ll be convinced that you should have known. That you should have somehow gotten help earlier. You couldn’t have known. Don’t let yourself live there for long.
You will dig deep and find reserves of energy you never would have believed you had. You will run on adrenaline and crash into dreamless sleep. But you will come through it. I swear, you will. You will find a rhythm.
You will neglect yourself. You will suddenly realize that you haven’t stopped moving. You’ve missed the gym. You’ve taken care of everyone but you. You will forget how important it is to take care of yourself. Listen to me. If you hear nothing else, hear this. You MUST take care of yourself. You are no use to anyone unless you are healthy. I mean that holistically, my friend. HEALTHY. Nourished, rested, soul-fed. Your children deserve that example.
A friend will force you to take a walk. You will go outside. You will look at the sky. Follow the clouds upward. Try to find where they end. You’ll need that. You’ll need the air. You’ll need to remember how small we all really are.
You will question your faith. Or find it. Maybe both.
You will never, ever take progress for granted. Every milestone met, no matter what the timing, will be cause for celebration. Every baby step will be a quantum leap. You will find the people who understand that. You will revel in their support and love and shared excitement.
You will encounter people who care for your child in ways that restore your faith in humanity. You will cherish the teachers and therapists and caregivers who see past your child’s challenges and who truly understand her strengths. They will feel like family.
You will examine and re-examine every one of your own insecurities. You will recognize some of your child’s challenges as your own. You will get to know yourself as you get to know your child. You will look to the tools you have used to mitigate your own challenges. You will share them. You will both be better for it.
You will come to understand that there are gifts in all of this. Tolerance, compassion, understanding. Precious, life altering gifts.
You will worry about your other children. You will feel like you’re not giving them enough time. You will find the time. Yes, you will. No, really. You will. You will discover that the time that means something to them is not big. It’s not a trip to the circus. It doesn’t involve planning. It’s free. You will forget the dog and pony shows. Instead, you will find fifteen minutes before bed. You will close the door. You will sit on the floor. You’ll play Barbies with your daughter or Legos with your son. You’ll talk. You’ll listen. You’ll listen some more. You’ll start to believe they’ll be OK. And they will. You will be a better parent for all of it.
You will find the tools that you need. You will take bits and pieces of different theories and practices. You’ll talk to parents and doctors and therapists. You’ll take something from each of them. You’ll even find value in those you don’t agree with at all. Sometimes the most. From the scraps that you gather, you will start to build your child’s quilt. A little of this, a little of that, a lot of love.
You will speak hesitantly at first, but you’ll find your voice. You will come to see that no one knows your child better than you do. You will respectfully listen to the experts in each field. You will value their experience and their knowledge. But you will ultimately remember that while they are the experts in science, you are the expert in your child.
You will think you can’t handle it. You will be wrong.
This is not an easy road, but its rewards are tremendous. It’s joys are the very sweetest of life’s nectar. You will drink them in and taste and smell and feel every last drop of them.
You will be OK.
You will  help your sweet girl be far better than OK. You will show her boundless love. She will know that she is accepted and cherished and celebrated for every last morsel of who she is. She will know that her Mama’s there at every turn. She will believe in herself as you believe in her. She will astound you. Over and over and over again. She will teach you far more than you teach her. She will fly.
You will be OK.
And I will be here for you. Every step of the way.
With love,
Jess

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Inappropriately funny :)

This was on a kid's homework today from school... match the sentence to the picture.






Later, when another child ran out of verses for the "Wheels on the Bus" he sang... "the daddys on the bus say shut yo mouf... shut yo mouf..."